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Dear Mary

Dear Mary: Show me the tactful way to pay for a lift

Plus: Another answer to shouting up the stairs, and a curse for weekend ambushes from B&Bs

23 August 2014

9:00 AM

23 August 2014

9:00 AM

Q. My neighbour is really lovely and always helps me chainsaw trees. He used to be the herdsman at the farm but was laid off last summer when they sold the herd, so now he is unemployed. Friends from London often borrow my cottage when I am away and I am sure my neighbour would welcome £10 a time to collect them from the station.

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