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How niceness became the eighth deadly sin for women

We’re increasingly enjoined not to be nice. We seem to be listening

9 August 2014

9:00 AM

9 August 2014

9:00 AM

Fredericksburg, Virginia

I have come a long way with feminism. When it first hit the fan in the early 1970s I was living in a thin-walled apartment next to a woman who held assertiveness-training workshops that included bloodcurdling shouts of ‘This steak is tough! I demand to see the manager!’ Now, 40 years later, assertiveness is all about careers.

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