Is it just me, or is the gay lobby getting painfully tedious? There’s now a near-universal consensus that we should get the whole marriage debate over with, so that all the wingnuts on both sides of the aisle will shut up and let us get on with our lives. Tim Wilson can’t seriously think we’ll believe him when he says marriage must ‘evolve’ to include gay couples if it’s to remain ‘relevant’ in the 21st century.