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Dear Mary

Mary solves your problem: Is it cultural appropriation for an English person to attend a Burns supper?

13 January 2018

9:00 AM

13 January 2018

9:00 AM

Q. Should the lady or the gentleman have the banquette in a restaurant? I’ve been brought up to believe that the lady has the banquette for her more delicate bottom — and for her handbag. She has the view of the room; the gentleman has only eyes for her. My fiancé says that a modern couple should take it in turns to have the hard chair.

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