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Dear Mary

Dear Mary: how can I hide that I’m no longer drinking?

23 February 2019

9:00 AM

23 February 2019

9:00 AM

Q. I have given up drink except on certain occasions when it would be really rude to refuse. What’s the best way of telling kind hosts at parties that you’re not drinking, without causing their faces to drop with disappointment? I’ve tried accepting a glass and then not drinking it, but that means a wasted glass for the host.

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