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Dear Mary

Dear Mary: What do you do when your hostess licks your spoon?

31 August 2019

9:00 AM

31 August 2019

9:00 AM

Q. I have happily overcome many moments of diplomatic and social challenge, but was stumped by the case of the licked cutlery. What does one do when one’s distinguished hostess asks to taste your soup, only to return your spoon smeared after more than a delicate sip? In a choice between not implying she has germs or benefiting from the attention of a waiter, do you use it or lose it?
— A.D.,

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