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Dear Mary: I was at the dinner party when the text came disinviting me

8 August 2015 9:00 am

Q. While renting in Rock last week, I ran into an acquaintance who invited me to join her large house…

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6 August 2015 1:00 pm

Q. While renting in Rock last week, I ran into an acquaintance who invited me to join her large house…

Dear Mary: Dare I put my wife and three ex-mistresses all at the same table?

1 August 2015 9:00 am

Q. I have learned that someone I much admired in youth is about to become single again. I only have…

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30 July 2015 1:00 pm

Q. I have learned that someone I much admired in youth is about to become single again. I only have…

Dear Mary: How can I flirt on the train when a man who knows my old habits is watching?

25 July 2015 9:00 am

Q. Travelling on a train recently I happened to notice two former acquaintances, sitting together and very nearly opposite me,…

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23 July 2015 1:00 pm

Q. Travelling on a train recently I happened to notice two former acquaintances, sitting together and very nearly opposite me,…

Dear Mary: unacceptable behaviour at a book signing

18 July 2015 9:00 am

Q. At a recent literary festival I attended a talk with a high-profile octogenarian writer. I had already bought her…

Dear Mary

16 July 2015 1:00 pm

Q. At a recent literary festival I attended a talk with a high-profile octogenarian writer. I had already bought her…

Dear Mary: How can I survive a house with shared bathrooms?

11 July 2015 9:00 am

Q. I am anxious about a forthcoming house party to which several people in my friendship group have been invited.…

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9 July 2015 1:00 pm

Q. I am anxious about a forthcoming house party to which several people in my friendship group have been invited.…

Dear Mary: Before an old boys’ reunion, should I tip people off to an interesting fact?

4 July 2015 9:00 am

Q. The problem encountered by R.B. of Fareham (6 June) is similar to one I wish to avoid. I have…

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2 July 2015 1:00 pm

Q. The problem encountered by R.B. of Fareham (6 June) is similar to one I wish to avoid. I have…

Dear Mary: My husband has shaved his head for a newspaper feature

27 June 2015 9:00 am

Q. My partner, a leading political commentator on a national newspaper, recently agreed to shave off his hair at the…

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25 June 2015 1:00 pm

Q. My partner, a leading political commentator on a national newspaper, recently agreed to shave off his hair at the…

Dear Mary: Should I follow Cilla Black’s lead on disabled loos?

20 June 2015 9:00 am

Q. I was at the theatre recently and bumped into a well-known Liverpudlian crooner coming out of the disabled lavatory.…

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18 June 2015 1:00 pm

Q. I was at the theatre recently and bumped into a well-known Liverpudlian crooner coming out of the disabled lavatory.…

Dear Mary: Must I be effusive in visitors’ books?

13 June 2015 9:00 am

Q. My parents brought me up to write only my name in a visitors’ book. However, following a recent long…

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11 June 2015 1:00 pm

Q. My parents brought me up to write only my name in a visitors’ book. However, following a recent long…

Dear Mary: What to do when an old friend snubs you

6 June 2015 9:00 am

Q. What should I say the next time I run into a woman with whom I was at art school…

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4 June 2015 1:00 pm

Q. What should I say the next time I run into a woman with whom I was at art school…

Dear Mary: What to do when a dinner guest won’t turn and chat

30 May 2015 9:00 am

Q. I felt uncomfortable during a dinner for 20 in a private house. The young man on my left had…

Dear Mary

28 May 2015 1:00 pm

Q. I felt uncomfortable during a dinner for 20 in a private house. The young man on my left had…

Dear Mary, what do you do when you can't read the replies to a wedding invitation?

23 May 2015 9:00 am

Q. How can I discipline inconsiderate people who do not reply properly to wedding invitations? I am being driven demented…

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21 May 2015 1:00 pm

Q. How can I discipline inconsiderate people who do not reply properly to wedding invitations? I am being driven demented…

Dear Mary: How can I make my shy friend’s generosity plain?

16 May 2015 9:00 am

Q. I have a friend who can be shy and inhibited. Recently, he was invited to stay on a Caribbean…