shame

The shame of being an alcoholic mother

9 November 2024 9:00 am

Julia Hamilton and her daughter Arabella Byrne share their experiences of an addiction that seemed ‘baked into them like a curse’, and the special stigma they felt attached to them

Were the Ancient Greeks shameless?

11 May 2024 9:00 am

Last week Mary Wakefield discussed the virtues of her ‘Victorian’ education, designed to stiffen the upper lip of the young…

Shoplifters need to feel shame

23 September 2023 9:00 am

This is my brother’s story and, like many telling stories, it’s small. Tim lives in Iowa, as our mother’s family…

The devastating effects of bigamy: Silver Sparrow, by Tayari Jones, reviewed

4 April 2020 9:00 am

Conservative estimates place the number of those in America with more than one spouse as up to 100,000, but the…

‘Shame’ is no longer one’s greatest fear, it’s offence culture’s default response

6 April 2019 9:00 am

In 1663, just before Samuel Pepys visited the stables of the elegant Thomas Povey, where he found the walls were…

Cameron's sinister purge of the posh

4 June 2016 9:00 am

Should employees be judged by their parents’ income?

Toby Young: Why I'm giving up drinking. And chocolate. And ice cream...

11 January 2014 9:00 am

I’ve gone completely overboard with New Year’s Resolutions this year. I’ve sworn off three illicit substances — alcohol, chocolate and…